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Name: Procrastinator
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3/16/2007
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| When you want to move house, you secure the next move in advance of moving out of current house.
Why the big deal?
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| Lately, I've beginning to find myself not being able to tell the truth to my partner. Tonight I had to lie through the eye in case I hurt him. He has cooked me dinner due to my busy schedule and I do appreciate it. However, when it came to testing my taste-buds, I wasn't amused. How could I possibly tell him knowing the truth that would break his heart and after all the effort he went through (even went to buy all the ingredients)?
It has been a while since I've felt this way. I remember at the start of the relationship, I would have to tell porkies like this. In the second phase of the relationship where you begin to discover each other, I could tell him honestly what I thought. Now that we know and love each other so much, it is much harder to tell the truth as it would create awkward atmosphere.
The irony. You'd think that as the relationship builds, truths and hurdles are easier to overcome. Now, plans to earn enough money for a chef or dinner during these busy times...
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| Seems love and life is a contradiction. You love someone so you stay with them for life, yet, there are things you give up for live for the one you love.
Friction occurs quite often especially in stages of starting a career. We need money to live, and strive for our future yet at present we need to be half way across the country. What if there was no tomorrow, then all there would be is regret. What if we wanted a good life and wanted to strive for the best future for our family, but give up the good jobs to stay with the loved ones.
There is no right or wrong. There is only a personal preference. Personal choice of which you would risk. After all, who knows when the world would end, when would either one would just fall out of love, when would inflation stop! Maybe then it'll be less of a dilemma.
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| Cheated. I have.
Admitted to it like running towards a bull. Ran to admitting it knowing it was suicide. Yes, it was bad. Yes, some say I shouldn't have done that. I admit, it was my bad to go off the rails and betraying the one you love is no excuse.
Yet, how many people do look on the side of the person who has cheated?
What right have you got to say that it was wrong? How much do you know about the relationship. Sometimes, a perfect relationship on the surface may just be too perfect. Sometimes "perfect" lack that spice, where it is so comfortable to a point, it's heading towards doom. A relationship for me is a balance to all sides, comfort, security, yet enough to make you show you want it, need it.
Why are relationships so sweet at the start?
Because they are naive, no previous knowledge, nothing yet to balance. Not knowing what the other person wants to achieve gives us that bit of unsettlement and makes us work that bit harder for it.
Unfortunately, sometimes, as time goes by, that novelty wears off. Both sides begin to live independently while in the knowledge that the other person is there, so no work is done.
How unfortunate that we as human beings are selfish. I am one. I'm just a person. I make mistakes too. Faults on both sides needs to be corrected. Relationships takes two. There is no blame on one side.
Not an excuse for such action, just wanted to present my side of the story although I was terribly wrong. I'm sorry.
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| Have you ever come across that really charming person, who you just can't stop thinking about, can't keep your eyes off even though he/she is usually a bad person, i.e. CHEAT. They hurt their innocent other half yet: Why do people always stay with them despite their serial cheating? Perhaps, one of the reason is, when they're there, they are the ones that would do anything for you, the hopeless romantics. They know how to please their partners, how to get to their partners' soft spots, how to melt them.
Yet when they're away, they always seem so different. That's because they're attention cannot be divided. After all, the job wouldn't be as well done if they didn't put 100% into it! These are people that cause us to go insane as we lost our emotional stability. Isn't it those hopeless romantic moments that we always dream about? Aren't they the reason why we wish all our partners are insanely in love with us?
The reality to many is no despite the answer being a yes. The partners we love are often not cassanovas, nor very romantic and luckily, not cheats. They just live in as part of our lives like a limb we cannot live without. Sometimes, the limb would go into a spasm and do something different and surprise. Most of the other time, it's simply living. No, I'm not single and neither am I pessimistic. I'm just speaking from my point of what a lot of relationships are, especially with finance,time and partners with imagination restrictions, yet we all still can dream! Emotional unstability causers or just plainly in love? Still can't choose? I secretly would like a bit of both but for the moment, I'm plainly in love but like to daydream! | | |
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